Just a reminder
This is a list of reminders to myself. They could be relevant to you, if they are, I hope they can help motivate greater kindness towards yourself. I was inspired by similar posts that Liz has made.
- It’s okay to be sad and cry. You don’t have to try to act strong all the time. You’re just ignoring emotions that are going to build up and explode (boom).
- You should not feel stupid because you are unable to do something that someone else can (and don’t use that ‘everyone can’ excuse, because that is a lie).
- Measuring your own self worth on any kind of scale (including ones where other people are involved) is a lie.
- So you don’t look like a model or won’t be a cover girl. It does not mean that you are ugly and worthless. That kind of theory gives you an F-.
30B30: Plan a future
This blog post is part of the 30 Before 30 tag, where I have 30 goals that I aim to complete before turning 30 on the 11th of March, 2017.
I thought it was certainly time to update my 30 Before 30 tag, with a specific update and tick off of the Plan a future item (sitting on #2). It’s kind of a big one, and I am glad that I can now be able to say; “Oh cool, I have a future, I have plans, things are going to be alright.” That’s not to say, that unexpected things can’t happen, plans can and often do change. I am content with the fact that at least for now, I have some direction!
My plan for the future
On March 11, I turned 28. It wasn’t all doomy and gloomy, but it did feel strange. Yesterday I thought I was only a teen, and now I am inching towards 30.
I think the most important thing that I realised is; I don’t have to act my age, I only have to be myself. My age does not define who I am or dictate how I should live.
30 Before 30: Blog Categories
This is an update to my 30 before 30 goals. I have successfully gone through all 500+ entries on my blog and placed them in appropriate categories (I’m trying to keep it simple too). It was quite easily the simplest goal of the 30, so at least I have one item off the list.
Here are some things I learned while going through all these entries.
- From 2005 to 2003 I sound crazy, bizarre and can’t spell at all.
- Sometime after 2006 I seemed to gain a few more brain cells (a few).
- I seemed to have constant struggles with mental lows and highs.
- Sometimes my spelling is still pretty bad.
- I am not going to try and organise my tags, because they are just doing their own thing…
Now, just 29 more goals before I turn 30 on the 11th of March 2017.
- When did you first start blogging?
- How far back do your blog entries go on your current blog?
- Have you changed since your first entries?
30 before 30
Inspired by a post that Jem made on her blog, I decided that I would make a list of 30 things to do before I turn 30, which will be on the 11th of March 2017. My hope is that it will inspire me to do many of the things I want and have a realistic ‘deadline’ for them.
- Solid mental health plan
Making sure I have a good mental health plan is important. If you struggle with mental illness you will understand how complicated it can be. Mental health plan can include, ‘feeling well’ having the right medication, good people to speak with if there is a problem, direction on how to get help and where to go if I need help.
- Plan a future
See a future for myself and decide what I am going to do there. Maybe study, work on my business, work for someone else? Decide and move forward.
- Work or Study
Once I have decided on my future plans, I should be working or studying towards some goals. I might update this once I know what I am doing, yay.
- Save don’t spend
I need to take money a little more seriously and really save it. Rather than just spending on random things I don’t need.
- Write/Illustrate a children’s book
I have wanted to do this for at least 15 years and haven’t yet. I need to write, illustrate and publish my own book for the kiddies.
- Pink Hair
I must have pink hair again at least once before I turn 30. If I could have it consistently pink that would be awesome (but I don’t think the hair could handle the constant bleaching…. )
- Write a lost letter
Write a letter to each person that I have lost and tell them everything I wanted to say since they have passed. This would be a really good healing experience, but I have been scared to do it.
- See Nicole & Claire
If I do not see Nicole and Claire in person again before I am 30, I fail at life, forever.
- Curb domain addiction
Only buy domains that I have an actual use for, and let go of ones I have never used…. YES.
- Stay vegetarian(ish)
I have never really liked eating meat, and made the decision to stop eating it (besides fish). I hope that I will continue to do this, because personally it feels right.
- 10 photo shoots
Take 10 photography shoots that each have 10 high quality images. These must all be planned, have a purpose and creative incentive. They can not be 10 random images of things I have brought.
- Write more often
I used to write poetry and fiction a lot. I should do this as much as I can, say at the very very least once a week!
If I do not stop and appreciate what I have and who I have in my life then I am ignoring some really important parts of the whole big picture. Even though I may have some struggles, I still have to realise that I am lucky in many many ways and should see that and appreciate.
- Travel Overseas
It can include via plane or boat, but must be another country. (Note to self, Tasmania is not another country, so when I go there, it doesn’t count)
- Travel to Tasmania
Because it looks so amazing. But, it does not count as another country.
- Create art
I have softly stepped into traditional art and I should expand on this and be fearless in my approach to creative expression though artistic mediums.
- Learn current web standards
I am pretty much out of the loop with current web standards, so I need to relearn responsive design and everything to try and make some new designs.
- Make my own blog layout
Once I have caught up on current web standards, I should then make my own layout/theme for my blog!
- Stop smoking
Because this would be healthy.
I should volunteer my time for a charity that really needs it, and help them in any way they need. Preferably not just a one time thing!!
- 30 day creative challenge
Create something significantly creative everyday for 30 days. For instance, a small little five minute vector does not count, it has to have had more effort put in or a forfeit.
- Create Stationery
I have always wanted to make my own memo pads, journals, pens, stickers, cards and more and I should!
- Stop drinking soda/pop
I know how bad this stuff is for me, yet I seem to have a big problem with letting it go. If I can, I know I will feel a lot better too.
- Fix blog categories
Waaaah. Why did I have to put this here…
- Keep a journal/diary
I am really good at starting diaries, but then failing to keep them. I know how important they are to express all the feels and also a clear record of emotions and events that pass. DOOO IIIITTT.
I love to read and I should be continually doing this. Reading at least 20 books each year (hopefully more).
- Healthy Weight
Reaching and maintaining a healthy weight would be fantastic and very important.
- Blog Matter
Have Blog Matter running properly and able to connect bloggers to each other. It can happen.
- Drive more
I am not a confident driver, so I am not going expect myself to have a full license by 30, but to have at least been trying to drive more often and become more familiar with it.
- Accept 30 is not the end of the world
Because it isn’t!
There, that’s not so hard. What am I waiting for? :P